I've written about backstabbers on my Facebook status and tweeted about this. Wondering why? Well I know most of us had gone through this phase where we meet someone who back stabs us. It isn't something unusual. Its either we back stab or someone else back stabs us. I won't deny that maybe I've back stabbed others. I'm not perfect, I do admit that. Perhaps my intentions were manipulated or I might've not realized what I was doing. Well I've got two situations to share:
Situation 1: Unknown Person
Okay, I heard a story this week of someone I have no idea of him/her existence trying to talk about me. The person is a reader of my blog here. Truly, I know NOT of this person's existence. I don't even know his/her name. Well, I heard he/she reads my blog just because he/she could talk bad about me. He/She calls me 'GEDIK'. Honestly, this word is pretty common to me since primary. So I couldn't be THAT offended. Most girls are whether you realize it or not. But yeahh. Okay sure. But to talk bad about me without knowing who I really am, to me is kinda unfair. Maybe you've heard soooo many stories of me, but how far sure of you of those stories? They might be rumors to bring me down. Ever thought of that? Really I'm not mad. Its just dissapointment. Give a chance for yourself to know me before you judge me and start spreading bad rumors of me when I really don't know who you are. :)
Situation 2: Friends
I might not be THAT close to these people but I really do feel offended when I trust them as my friends but then behind my back, they go around talking crap about me. Like hello? If you aren't satisfied with me, bring it to my face please? If it counts now, I am pretty sure I have never talked bad about them. I respect them as my friends. There are some things I don't like about them, but I've done pretty well keeping that to myself. Bravo to me! LOL. But yeah, you talked bad about me, twisting my words. I mean seriously? What are you trying to do? Make people hate me? SO WHAT? Those people can hate me all they want 'cause I barely even know them. But to you, my own friend? Wow. High school drama much? I don't hate you. But if there are other things that you aren't satisfied with, do bring it forward to me. Thanks:)
I am quite surprised by these stories that I've heard this week. I mean like, who knew right? But yeah, C'MON people! This isn't high school anymore. When are we gonna ever stop talking bad about people behind their back and whatnot? I really do hope after this, if anybody is still not satisfied by me, tell me. I'll try to improve myself better. It'll even help you by letting you be a better person that don't talk crap about others all the time. Am I right? Have a pleasant night friends!
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Backstabbing Shouldn't Be Made A Trend
Please Read :) Thank youuu.
In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day one fellow met the great philosopher and said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?". "Hold on a minute," Socrates replied. "Before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test.". "Triple filter?". "That's right," Socrates continued. "Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say. That's why I call it the triple filter test. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?" "No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it and...". "All right," said Socrates. "So you don't know if it's true or not. Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?" . "No, on the contrary...". "So," Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him, but you're not certain it's true. You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?" "No, not really." "Well," concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"
Lesson:
Well we can always participate in loose talks to curb our boredom. But when it comes to you friends its not worth it. Always avoid talking behind the back about your near and dear friends.
Friday, August 12, 2011
I'm Now at IIUM :))
Sudah lama saya tidak mengupdate blog ni. Bersawang, berhabuk! HAHA
Seperti yg kita semua tahu, lepas yaya dah kluar dari Matrik Perak, yaya masuk UIAM pula.
Seronok juga lahh masuk sini. Kenalan baru? Sangat lahh ramai.
Class tak banyak. Lecturer baik2 *baik kott. Student hot2 *merepek.HAHA
Hidup kat sini tak macam kampus lain. Agak bebas juga lahh. Takut students rosak jerr.
Haa. Ni ada sikit gambar untuk dikongsi :)
Cantik kann? Hee. Tapi yaya dah tak lama duduk sini. Next sem, semua kena pindah PJ.
Kedengaran tak best ye di situ. Hurmm. Nilai lagi besttttt laahh! Tak payah pindah lahh! HAHA *suka hati je
Dah dah. cukup laa setakat ni. Nanti yaya ada masa, yaya update lagi ye :)
Dadaa <3
